About

The goals of The Reality Method:

  1. To provide free, high-quality articles on the topic of how men can be more successful with women, generally and specifically.
  2. To help men and women to understand one another better, for the purpose of mutual satisfaction, happiness, fulfillment, and an overall increase in the net joy in the world.

About Your Author
ThirtyPlus has spent the last 20 years searching the world for the finest things in life. His resume includes time spent in the entertainment and hospitality industry, construction, journalism, contracting, information technology, personal coaching, and higher education. He has degrees in Business and Psychology, and has certificates of Success and Master Coaching and Biomedical Ethics.

Most recently, 30 works providing in-home care and coaching for individuals who have suffered traumatic brain injury – perhaps in penance for a multi-year stint working in some of the world’s largest and most sinful nightclubs.

30 has friends and business contacts on 4 continents and has managed to avoid jail time on all 6.

A few things 30+ is NOT:

  • a trust fund recipient
  • a drug, arms, or human organ dealer
  • a misogynist
  • an advocate of anything illegal

A few things 30+ IS:

  • mostly self-educated
  • the recipient of a self-funded Business degree from a public, state university
  • an attendee of public school for the majority of his young life
  • a searcher for truth and knowledge wherever it may be found
  • a strong proponent of the scientific method

Thirtyplus’s Key Beliefs

  1. “Seduction” is not a zero-sum game; rather, if done properly, it is a positive experience for both parties.
  2. Good sex is better than mediocre sex; mediocre sex is better than bad sex; bad sex is worse than masturbation.
  3. Sex and seduction techniques ought to be more widely and freely disseminated, for the edification and greater enjoyment of both men and women (though women are not expected to admit that this information benefits them just as much as it does men).

Rants, Raves, and other Reviews of TRM
“I think you’re on highly questionable moral ground”
–euny, UK

“It talks about really random things like how to rate women based on looks alone and how to not settle for a non-hot girl. which kind of got under my skin, but then it started to talk about how men should demand a total package from a woman. not only looks but personality and intelligence i started to think differently about this blog.”
–keoki, USA

“just so damn funny.”
–Starry-Eyed Girl, Singapore

“This guy knows his stuff and transmits it like a Zen master.”
thedubber, SocialSkillz.com

NOTE: This site’s intended audience is primarily men; but I believe both men and women can benefit from the techniques, tools, and perspectives offered here, primarily because members of both genders have told me so.

NOTE on COMMENTING: Comments are turned on, but moderated; if your comment in any way adds value to the discussion or strokes my ego, I will definitely post it. If it is angry, hateful, disrespectful, polemic, politicizing or ranting, and in any way demonstrates an ignorance of the NOTE above, it will probably not be posted.

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