Comments on: On the Difficulty of Defining the Succesful Relationship http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/ How to succeed with women, actually, for real...and for free. Wed, 27 Aug 2008 23:46:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: nignig http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-669 nignig Sun, 13 Apr 2008 02:54:06 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-669 while we are on the subject of the eye contact thing I'd like to link eye contact with another post of yours thirtyplus.....maybe this isnt brand new to you guys but I've found out when I triangular gaze a girl I've cold approached then tease her they shoot strong ass IOI's ...I think this goes back to your how to turn a women on post, while we are on the subject of the eye contact thing I’d like to link eye contact with another post of yours thirtyplus…..maybe this isnt brand new to you guys but I’ve found out when I triangular gaze a girl I’ve cold approached then tease her they shoot strong ass IOI’s …I think this goes back to your how to turn a women on post,

]]> By: nignig http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-668 nignig Sun, 13 Apr 2008 02:15:00 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-668 While we are on the subject of the eye contact,I've found out when I triangular gaze a girl (I didn't do this before) I've cold approached then tease her they shoot strong ass IOI's (wasn't getting them before, I think the explanation goes back to your how to turn a women on post, The triangular gaze is Subtley letting her know I wanna kiss her and teasing her is not acting on it/restraint,I'm only guessing could you make sense of this thirtyplus. While we are on the subject of the eye contact,I’ve found out when I triangular gaze a girl (I didn’t do this before) I’ve cold approached then tease her they shoot strong ass IOI’s (wasn’t getting them before, I think the explanation goes back to your how to turn a women on post, The triangular gaze is Subtley letting her know I wanna kiss her and teasing her is not acting on it/restraint,I’m only guessing could you make sense of this thirtyplus.

]]> By: thirtyplus http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-662 thirtyplus Sat, 12 Apr 2008 04:15:45 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-662 Yeah, it's a trip. I've been doing it for a few days now, and it's amazing the response I've been getting. Women who I talk to while using it come back to me and open another conversation like 5 to 15 minutes later. I've found women look away frequently, but they always come back to my eyes, and hold steady there for a while. I also noticed they stop speaking so comprehensively when they're gazing back at me...it's clear they're devoting less attention to sequencing their thoughts. I like it. Yeah, it’s a trip. I’ve been doing it for a few days now, and it’s amazing the response I’ve been getting. Women who I talk to while using it come back to me and open another conversation like 5 to 15 minutes later. I’ve found women look away frequently, but they always come back to my eyes, and hold steady there for a while. I also noticed they stop speaking so comprehensively when they’re gazing back at me…it’s clear they’re devoting less attention to sequencing their thoughts. I like it.

]]> By: Lance http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-654 Lance Fri, 11 Apr 2008 15:08:21 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-654 So day 1 of new EC. I didn't think it was difficult to look directly into anyone's eyes during any type of interaction, although it felt "weird," like it was almost confrontational. I consciously smiled and projected relaxed BL in order to defuse this. Pretty much 100% of the people I EC'ed looked away first, except my boss! Go figure. The chicks always looked away first, after only a second or two. Will keep with it... So day 1 of new EC. I didn’t think it was difficult to look directly into anyone’s eyes during any type of interaction, although it felt “weird,” like it was almost confrontational. I consciously smiled and projected relaxed BL in order to defuse this. Pretty much 100% of the people I EC’ed looked away first, except my boss! Go figure. The chicks always looked away first, after only a second or two. Will keep with it…

]]> By: Lance http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-653 Lance Thu, 10 Apr 2008 13:39:42 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/on-the-difficulty-of-defining-the-succesful-relationship/#comment-653 I made the question open ended specifically for the pedantists out there. Glad you participated! It's been interesting, because everyone has had a different interpretation of the question and a different perspective, which is exactly what we were looking for. It seems the responses are highly informed by the individual writer's life and relationships. That EC article is awesome! Nice find. I'm going to try making and holding EC much more in my daily routine just to see what effect it has. I have to be honest...when I talk with anyone at length, I always stare at their mouth. I've been doing this my entire life. Have no idea what effect it has on the dynamic of the interaction, and never thought about it. I'll have to test and write a post. Cheers, L I made the question open ended specifically for the pedantists out there. Glad you participated! It’s been interesting, because everyone has had a different interpretation of the question and a different perspective, which is exactly what we were looking for. It seems the responses are highly informed by the individual writer’s life and relationships.

That EC article is awesome! Nice find. I’m going to try making and holding EC much more in my daily routine just to see what effect it has. I have to be honest…when I talk with anyone at length, I always stare at their mouth. I’ve been doing this my entire life. Have no idea what effect it has on the dynamic of the interaction, and never thought about it. I’ll have to test and write a post.
Cheers,
L

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