Comments on: Forcing Yourself to Chase the Pussy http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/forcing-yourself-to-chase-the-pussy/ How to succeed with women, actually, for real...and for free. Wed, 27 Aug 2008 23:40:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: thirtyplus http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/forcing-yourself-to-chase-the-pussy/#comment-741 thirtyplus Tue, 19 Aug 2008 01:37:51 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=170#comment-741 >>Do you stay monogamous but just try to get out more and >>“practice” by hitting on and flirting with girls, but not >>sleeping with them? Bingo. This is what I'd recommend. For most guys (and girls) 1+ years is too serious for you to really have the "let's see other people" talk without damaging the relationship...unless you get the sense you're drifting apart, and then it would probably be a really good idea. >>Do you stay monogamous but just try to get out more and >>“practice” by hitting on and flirting with girls, but not >>sleeping with them?

Bingo. This is what I’d recommend.

For most guys (and girls) 1+ years is too serious for you to really have the “let’s see other people” talk without damaging the relationship…unless you get the sense you’re drifting apart, and then it would probably be a really good idea.

]]> By: billy http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/forcing-yourself-to-chase-the-pussy/#comment-740 billy Mon, 18 Aug 2008 15:19:48 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=170#comment-740 So what do you do if you've already made the mistake of "Serial Monogamy" and you're in a relationship of almost a year? How can you, without necessarily ending your current relationship, keep your skills up? Do you need to have the "We should see other people" talk? Or is it too late? Do you stay monogamous but just try to get out more and "practice" by hitting on and flirting with girls, but not sleeping with them? So what do you do if you’ve already made the mistake of “Serial Monogamy” and you’re in a relationship of almost a year? How can you, without necessarily ending your current relationship, keep your skills up? Do you need to have the “We should see other people” talk? Or is it too late? Do you stay monogamous but just try to get out more and “practice” by hitting on and flirting with girls, but not sleeping with them?

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]]> By: Lance http://realitymethod.com/2008/04/forcing-yourself-to-chase-the-pussy/#comment-679 Lance Sun, 20 Apr 2008 16:06:00 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=170#comment-679 I need to take this advice along with every other serial monogamist. I think it's worth re-stating that not everyone has the same goal in the game, though. Some--most--guys might just want to date a few chicks and then find a really good one and get married. I think that's okay. That's one thing I got from Style and Stylelife Academy. You can succeed at the game by getting out of it and getting what you want. I'm not saying that's my goal, but it's the goal of plenty of guys. It might sound a bit like settling for a "7" or whatever, but dude whatever floats your boat. What I call a 7 you might call a 10. The route you're describing is closer to the path of a master PUA. The 3000 approach road. That's a hard path to trod and not everyone needs it or wants it. (Personally, I do.) Don't be lazy and improve your skills, that's always good advice. I need to take this advice along with every other serial monogamist. I think it’s worth re-stating that not everyone has the same goal in the game, though. Some–most–guys might just want to date a few chicks and then find a really good one and get married. I think that’s okay. That’s one thing I got from Style and Stylelife Academy. You can succeed at the game by getting out of it and getting what you want. I’m not saying that’s my goal, but it’s the goal of plenty of guys. It might sound a bit like settling for a “7″ or whatever, but dude whatever floats your boat. What I call a 7 you might call a 10.

The route you’re describing is closer to the path of a master PUA. The 3000 approach road. That’s a hard path to trod and not everyone needs it or wants it. (Personally, I do.)

Don’t be lazy and improve your skills, that’s always good advice.

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