Comments on: How to Build Confidence http://realitymethod.com/2007/12/how-to-build-confidence/ How to succeed with women, actually, for real...and for free. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 12:17:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: Romeov http://realitymethod.com/2007/12/how-to-build-confidence/#comment-534 Romeov Mon, 14 Jan 2008 04:44:28 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=149#comment-534 Good article, very interesting insight. Good article, very interesting insight.

]]> By: AFrame http://realitymethod.com/2007/12/how-to-build-confidence/#comment-531 AFrame Wed, 02 Jan 2008 23:51:37 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=149#comment-531 God damn. It IS me being socially awkward, isn't it. Fuck it. Let them norm to me. Thanks, thirty. -A God damn.

It IS me being socially awkward, isn’t it.

Fuck it. Let them norm to me. Thanks, thirty.

-A

]]> By: thirtyplus http://realitymethod.com/2007/12/how-to-build-confidence/#comment-533 thirtyplus Sat, 29 Dec 2007 17:46:05 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=149#comment-533 Aframe: the use of alcohol in mating situations could be an entire article on its own, but briefly: I think alcohol is mostly a hindrance, not a help, to seducers ...especially where confidence is concerned. You've heard the phrase "liquid courage". Pretty spot on for how most men use alky in social situations (especially "leks"). So, going on the eternal mating maxim of "Be Different"; what's more different than being in that situation and not drinking? If you're socially awkward about being without a drink, go ahead and order a seltzer water with lime and plenty of ice and carry it around, but even that's sort of a crutch. I'm a fan of not drinking, because it gives you an advantage. Most of the girls in those environments will be drinking, and if you're not, you'll be more mentally sharp and focused than them. Which should = better seduction, but not always. Aframe:

the use of alcohol in mating situations could be an entire article on its own, but briefly:

I think alcohol is mostly a hindrance, not a help, to seducers …especially where confidence is concerned. You’ve heard the phrase “liquid courage”. Pretty spot on for how most men use alky in social situations (especially “leks”).

So, going on the eternal mating maxim of “Be Different”; what’s more different than being in that situation and not drinking? If you’re socially awkward about being without a drink, go ahead and order a seltzer water with lime and plenty of ice and carry it around, but even that’s sort of a crutch.

I’m a fan of not drinking, because it gives you an advantage. Most of the girls in those environments will be drinking, and if you’re not, you’ll be more mentally sharp and focused than them. Which should = better seduction, but not always.

]]> By: AFrame http://realitymethod.com/2007/12/how-to-build-confidence/#comment-532 AFrame Sat, 29 Dec 2007 04:38:39 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=149#comment-532 Do you have anything to say about non-drinkers and confidence? In particular, I'm interested in the relationship between "leks," alcohol, and confidence, but to be honest, I'm interested in what you have to say about alcohol in general. It's ubiquitous, and it's a factor in the game, and I'm interested in work-arounds to using it myself while not trying to overly disturb the various social environments that I find myself in while playing the game. I don't mind being around it or people who are enjoying it, but being a piker gets awkward. Do you have anything to say about non-drinkers and confidence? In particular, I’m interested in the relationship between “leks,” alcohol, and confidence, but to be honest, I’m interested in what you have to say about alcohol in general. It’s ubiquitous, and it’s a factor in the game, and I’m interested in work-arounds to using it myself while not trying to overly disturb the various social environments that I find myself in while playing the game. I don’t mind being around it or people who are enjoying it, but being a piker gets awkward.

]]> By: T http://realitymethod.com/2007/12/how-to-build-confidence/#comment-537 T Fri, 28 Dec 2007 00:16:16 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=149#comment-537 Great comprehensive post. I never thought of breaking down conference to past experience, preparation and the other factors. Really a great way to digest it all intellectually. Good job. Great comprehensive post. I never thought of breaking down conference to past experience, preparation and the other factors. Really a great way to digest it all intellectually.

Good job.

]]> By: How to Build Confidence - Dating, Pickup, Seduction http://realitymethod.com/2007/12/how-to-build-confidence/#comment-536 How to Build Confidence - Dating, Pickup, Seduction Thu, 27 Dec 2007 17:03:58 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=149#comment-536 [...] How to Build Confidence Submitted by PUA RudeDog, 3 seconds ago (realitymethod.wordpress.com) [...] […] How to Build Confidence Submitted by PUA RudeDog, 3 seconds ago (realitymethod.wordpress.com) […]

]]> By: Jerry S. http://realitymethod.com/2007/12/how-to-build-confidence/#comment-535 Jerry S. Thu, 27 Dec 2007 16:25:38 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=149#comment-535 Another great artical you wrote!!! i was just talking about confidence to my friends in my lair. What makes confidence? You hit it again!!! When i have questions, yoru site is best for it.. Somehow you read my mind!!! Once again you are the man!! Love you for this, if you are in NYC lets go sarge!! - Love, j Another great artical you wrote!!! i was just talking about confidence to my friends in my lair. What makes confidence? You hit it again!!! When i have questions, yoru site is best for it.. Somehow you read my mind!!! Once again you are the man!! Love you for this, if you are in NYC lets go sarge!!

- Love, j

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