If you’re looking for emotional depth you want to establish a “ladder” harem. You first establish a “primary”, a girl who is your bona fide girlfriend / LTR. Then you add playthings on a rotating basis and get her used to the idea that there are other girls you are seeing, that are NOT as important as she is (the distance between them and her being in proportion to how insecure she is…if she’s really insecure, you must shit on them a lot, etc).

Your “primary” is always on top of the ladder, but she knows subconsciously that if she doesn’t mind her Ps and Qs, there is another girl just one rung down who would love to hold her position. This is how polyamorous marraiges used to work for royalty, with status afforded to 1st wife, second wife, third wife, etc.

It’s high high level stuff though. I would recommend you do NOT attempt unless you are already a grade-A relationship master. There is too much potential to deeply hurt people, fuck up lives, ruin things, etc.

n00b question here. How deep can you get in mLTRs? Are there certain boundries you can’t cross? Can you cuddle? Do you tell them you love them? I hear some PUAs use the term polyamory, but are they really talking about being “in love”? Or do you have to keep things more casual. Since this is totally foreign I’d be interested in hearing about it. I would want the emotional depth of a monogamous relationship, is that even possible with mLTRs?