Comments on: Why You Should ‘Sarge’

By: Superking

Superking — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 23:02:09 +0000

This post is going in my top pickup related articles folder. This is excellent.

By: $@kura

$@kura — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 09:35:41 +0000

Ross Jefferies went ’sarging’ with one goal: to seduce women using Speed Seduction. Pure manipulation.
People have forgotten about Ross, or never knew who he was. I just wish they would also lose the term
’sarging’.
You don’t need a reason to do anything. You do what you what to do. If you practice something you will
get better at it. Generally people practice things they want to get good at.
Why would you want to get good at ’sarging’? Well, I know why Ross did it. But I’ll bet most men don’t
like the idea of manipulation… if the goal is sex. Of course manipulation for other means, e.g.,
brightening someone’s day… that’s OK.
You can se all this leads nowhere. Why can’t we just drop th whole sarging thing?
You wanna hook up, you go talk to hot women. Why do we need a term for that?
Sarging is a bunch of guys doing Speed Seduction. That was the original meaning.

By: So Denim

So Denim — Wed, 31 Oct 2007 16:08:56 +0000

No guarantees, but it’s safe to predict that Shlippy’s body language is impeccable, and that he socially proofs himself by combining that and interacting with nontargets, both male and female.

You created the diagram for clubbing that way in your excellent essay on clubs. (Which is why you want a club where the VIP doesn’t have its own bar, for obvious reasons.)

But expand the concept a little:

Imagine going through the routine you describe for a core club at, say, four small restaurants/coffee shops (owner-run ones, so you can game the owner rather than the manager). Tip well; compliment the wait staff on getting your preferences down; chat up the staff and regulars; spend some down time reading, note-taking, beating on the laptop, whatever, while being tentatively receptive to interruptions.

Then give the HB who is waiting in line a quick “Hi,” while you’re on your way to chat with one of the regulars, to whom you’re listening with unsimulated fascination (high value guys paying attention to lower value people is, if properly managed, a DHV — it’s called nobless oblige or something with a similar spelling) and let her open up the set.

Lot of time? Not if you like hanging out in coffee shops or eating out; there’s that whole being genuine thing again.

By: afc2pua

afc2pua — Wed, 08 Aug 2007 17:18:47 +0000

I personally believe that once you fully understand it is a game, approach anxiety leaves. Every interaction with a women or a set yields a benefit. Maybe you got caught off-guard by a comment and failed to keep your composure? Everytime you open, and close whether sucessful or not - you can evaluate your performance and refine your game.

Practice makes preparation I think would be a good saying. You’re out to have fun, and just like one of the guys on David D’s DYD videos, if you smile, you can’t be nervous. Once I figured that out, the hottness level didn’t mean much because I couldn’t remember how to be nervous!

By: thirtyplus

thirtyplus — Wed, 18 Jul 2007 02:20:28 +0000

Shlippy,

I am interested in what you’ve written. Could you explain in more detail the mechanics that go into producing your vibe? Can you analyze it a bit for me and break it down to reproducible parts?

By: Shlippy

Shlippy — Tue, 17 Jul 2007 19:25:53 +0000

Finally a good explanation of why it’s good to Sarge.. I agree that once a guy gets to a certain, let’s say, “ability level,” the desire to go out and hit on chicks tends to wane. A guy wants to see who’s going to come to HIM, because anybody can go out and hit on 50 women and get SOMETHING. That’s not really the challenge anymore.

I must admit I love going out and seeing the types of women I can get to introduce themselves to ME. I haven’t approached in a long time, and these days it feels like I’m “descending” in status to do so. Of course that means I get far fewer women, but volume isn’t really important to me these days.

The feelings I get when a woman comes over, introduces herself to me, and picks ME up because of the vibe I’ve been putting out into the world is something that’s incomparable, IMHO. There’s nothing, nothing more rewarding to me than knowing some chick has “felt” me from across the room and has been interested enough to overcome her shyness to come to me.

By: Evangelo

Evangelo — Tue, 17 Jul 2007 01:53:49 +0000

Good points here. Sarging is always portrayed elsewhere as going out with the intention of making people like you and seducing every girl in sight, rather than just general, well practiced social skills.

You got me to go out! Respect.