Comments on: You Don’t Have to Be a Pimp

By: Dr Che

Dr Che — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 01:47:19 +0000

You’re a smart guy. Thank you so much for this entire blog. I’m reading it voraciously.

Again, sincere appreciation for your writings

By: J

Wed, 19 Dec 2007 10:57:36 +0000

THANK YOU for giving another insight into this. Other than ‘All men want a threesome and will not stop until they get one (even if it possibly ruins their relationship)’.

By: So Denim

So Denim — Wed, 31 Oct 2007 15:50:27 +0000

Well thought-out, well-written. I’d like to see you expand it, and challenge some of the other assumptions built into PUA writing, that tends toward the programming of social robots (great term; thanks, Style). I think that the emphasis on club pickups is part of that.

In order to successfully “work” a club, all you need are sufficient skills and prep, and then you walk into an environment where basically everybody is looking to hook up (except for a very few women who are there at least mainly to deal with esteem and self-esteem issues by shooting guys down). It’s like hooking fish in a barrel; just a question of the right bait, lure, and technique in reeling them in. If you’re not reeling in enough, watch the guys who have a string in their creel and learn.

What’s usually called “Day Game” is entirely different; it’s both an order of magnitude easier and more difficult.

By: zylya

zylya — Tue, 14 Aug 2007 23:12:25 +0000

I like your post, because it emphasises something I’ve always thought is an important part of seduction in itself - to know what you want! I agree that it’s not all about being a pimp and having regular threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. But I think it’s also important to remember that, for some people, that’s exactly what they want :)

By: Westside23

Westside23 — Fri, 03 Aug 2007 17:05:02 +0000

I absolutely agree with this post as well. I recently read Neil Strauss’ book “The Game”, and even HE comes to the conclusion that continuous sarging for more and more girls just for the sake of it eventually leads nowhere.

However, I think every guy at some point needs to get out there and sample a variety of women so he know’s what’s out there and can find out what he REALLY likes so he’ll know a good thing when he’s ready to settle down.

Peace

By: micky

micky — Sat, 21 Jul 2007 15:14:39 +0000

another GREAT post, as always;)
please keep up the really good work and the excellent articles you provide
if u ever think about publishing a book of ur own, ill buy it right away

head up!

By: Chris

Chris — Wed, 04 Jul 2007 19:01:55 +0000

This might sound sappy, but I agree with Gamble’s comment. Thirtyplus - your blog is one of the best PUA/seduction/relationship blogs I’ve found. And I’ve read a lot of blogs on this subject. You’re not selling anything (you’re not even promoting affiliate products) and your posts are insightful, intelligent, and nicely written. It’s not the same-old rehashed PUA stuff that you find everywhere.

I just wanted to say thank you for writing and maintaining this blog. I know it’s a lot of work to keep producing great content (especially when there’s no financial incentive to do so), but I really appreciate it. Keep writing!

Re: The Pimp Lifestyle - For most guys, I think the fantasy is better than the reality. Marketers are savvy and they’re selling the dream/fantasy of multiple women who can be easily possessed/acquired if you know “the secrets” (sold for only $1997 through a bootcamp). The idea that “more is better” - more cars, more money, more possessions, more women - is heavily promoted by the mainstream media and I think guys get sucked into this mentality. But “more” (especially more of the same) does not always make people happier, or contribute to a higher-quality of life. So, I agree with you on this.