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		<title>By: Bill</title>
		<link>http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/selfish-genes-and-overcoming-infidelity/#comment-151</link>
		<dc:creator>Bill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 05:45:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>With all the focus on the benefits of mltr's for men, I would like to see a similar focus on mltr's (or at least "tltr's") for WOMEN. This should be about liberating ALL people from the societal constraints that are unrealistic in the modern milieu of many options/extended longevity/birth control/paternity testing. If other sexual lifestyle options are acceptable nowadays,then so should polymorous ones.

Notice that I said "option", NOT a new dogma. MOST people probably either don't prefer or can't properly manage such arrangements. But for those that can, let's go forward and find fucking satisfaction in the here and now!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With all the focus on the benefits of mltr&#8217;s for men, I would like to see a similar focus on mltr&#8217;s (or at least &#8220;tltr&#8217;s&#8221;) for WOMEN. This should be about liberating ALL people from the societal constraints that are unrealistic in the modern milieu of many options/extended longevity/birth control/paternity testing. If other sexual lifestyle options are acceptable nowadays,then so should polymorous ones.</p>
<p>Notice that I said &#8220;option&#8221;, NOT a new dogma. MOST people probably either don&#8217;t prefer or can&#8217;t properly manage such arrangements. But for those that can, let&#8217;s go forward and find fucking satisfaction in the here and now!</p>
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		<title>By: $@kura</title>
		<link>http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/selfish-genes-and-overcoming-infidelity/#comment-150</link>
		<dc:creator>$@kura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 22:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>if men and women's minds are different then there's no point in trying to interpret a woman's
actions using a male brain.  no, scratch that.  change interpret to 'harmonise'.  i don't
think this sort of thing is a dilemma for women.  i think it is a dilemma for men.  because
the female mind says 'give me more emotions'.  the male mind says 'give me logic.'  that's
at a very low level.  at higher levels, our minds are not so different... i.e. morality.
that's what this article is about: morality.  what should she do?  should implies some sort
of standard, consensus from some outside observer.

morality gives us a realtively consistent answer.

alas, morality is a higher level brain activity and it doesn't always sync up with the low
level female and male brains.  i think in one of your other articles someone mentioned that
indeed morality may have been a means of reigning in the consequences of low level male and
female behaviour.

your friend is just doing what she naturally does, as a woman.  doesn't make sense to a man
because what a man naturally does is quite different.

and then we have morality.  an attempt to modify the inherent female and male behaviour.  this
bahviour occurs without us even thinking.  naturally.  morality on the other hand... gives us
something to think about.  we can even judge people based on whether they'r living up to the code.
fun!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>if men and women&#8217;s minds are different then there&#8217;s no point in trying to interpret a woman&#8217;s<br />
actions using a male brain.  no, scratch that.  change interpret to &#8216;harmonise&#8217;.  i don&#8217;t<br />
think this sort of thing is a dilemma for women.  i think it is a dilemma for men.  because<br />
the female mind says &#8216;give me more emotions&#8217;.  the male mind says &#8216;give me logic.&#8217;  that&#8217;s<br />
at a very low level.  at higher levels, our minds are not so different&#8230; i.e. morality.<br />
that&#8217;s what this article is about: morality.  what should she do?  should implies some sort<br />
of standard, consensus from some outside observer.</p>
<p>morality gives us a realtively consistent answer.</p>
<p>alas, morality is a higher level brain activity and it doesn&#8217;t always sync up with the low<br />
level female and male brains.  i think in one of your other articles someone mentioned that<br />
indeed morality may have been a means of reigning in the consequences of low level male and<br />
female behaviour.</p>
<p>your friend is just doing what she naturally does, as a woman.  doesn&#8217;t make sense to a man<br />
because what a man naturally does is quite different.</p>
<p>and then we have morality.  an attempt to modify the inherent female and male behaviour.  this<br />
bahviour occurs without us even thinking.  naturally.  morality on the other hand&#8230; gives us<br />
something to think about.  we can even judge people based on whether they&#8217;r living up to the code.<br />
fun!</p>
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		<title>By: Canadian Liberal Against Feminism</title>
		<link>http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/selfish-genes-and-overcoming-infidelity/#comment-147</link>
		<dc:creator>Canadian Liberal Against Feminism</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2007 02:08:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You sir, have thankfully finally hit the nail on the head, or at least gotten as close  to the truth as I've seen on the blogsphere.  I think that you are quite correct in pointing out that women desire bad-boy types for their genes, and not for some cheap thrills.  Most blogs take the position that bad-boy types are good for excitement, but this seems just too simplistic.  An instinctual explination therefore, is simply more convincing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You sir, have thankfully finally hit the nail on the head, or at least gotten as close  to the truth as I&#8217;ve seen on the blogsphere.  I think that you are quite correct in pointing out that women desire bad-boy types for their genes, and not for some cheap thrills.  Most blogs take the position that bad-boy types are good for excitement, but this seems just too simplistic.  An instinctual explination therefore, is simply more convincing.</p>
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		<title>By: thirtyplus</title>
		<link>http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/selfish-genes-and-overcoming-infidelity/#comment-149</link>
		<dc:creator>thirtyplus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2007 18:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great comment man, thanks for reading. And it sounds like the ebook is pretty much spot-on as well.

The dichotomy between "suckers" and "fuckers" it refers to is what a lot of people also call the "beta" and "alpha" male, respectively.

And it's good that the book details how so-called "beta" males, instead of buying into the Disneyesque American Romance fairytale, can simply become celibate for a time, focus on their work/careers and personal development, and then go exploring abroad once they've stacked some cash.

Only problem is, these guys, if they have neglected relationships for so long, are going to have trouble handling even *foreign* women because of lack of experience. A guy who's still a virgin or functionally virgin (fewer than 5 sex partners or 1 LTR) at age 35 is not going to be able to rock a foreign woman's world sexually (the #1 reason women behave).

So, I believe every man -- whether he want to date American women or not -- needs to learn this stuff, and learn how to be good with women, how to charm them, have charisma, handle his business in bed, handle her shit-tests, vibe, pace and lead her in interactions, etc.

My own experience with international women bears this out. They may be less "immoral" than American women but they are still women. GL from Russian Women (in my blogroll) has agreed with me and the material I've written so far, based on his interactions, saying it's just as applicable to Russian or Northern European women as American.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great comment man, thanks for reading. And it sounds like the ebook is pretty much spot-on as well.</p>
<p>The dichotomy between &#8220;suckers&#8221; and &#8220;fuckers&#8221; it refers to is what a lot of people also call the &#8220;beta&#8221; and &#8220;alpha&#8221; male, respectively.</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s good that the book details how so-called &#8220;beta&#8221; males, instead of buying into the Disneyesque American Romance fairytale, can simply become celibate for a time, focus on their work/careers and personal development, and then go exploring abroad once they&#8217;ve stacked some cash.</p>
<p>Only problem is, these guys, if they have neglected relationships for so long, are going to have trouble handling even *foreign* women because of lack of experience. A guy who&#8217;s still a virgin or functionally virgin (fewer than 5 sex partners or 1 LTR) at age 35 is not going to be able to rock a foreign woman&#8217;s world sexually (the #1 reason women behave).</p>
<p>So, I believe every man &#8212; whether he want to date American women or not &#8212; needs to learn this stuff, and learn how to be good with women, how to charm them, have charisma, handle his business in bed, handle her shit-tests, vibe, pace and lead her in interactions, etc.</p>
<p>My own experience with international women bears this out. They may be less &#8220;immoral&#8221; than American women but they are still women. GL from Russian Women (in my blogroll) has agreed with me and the material I&#8217;ve written so far, based on his interactions, saying it&#8217;s just as applicable to Russian or Northern European women as American.</p>
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		<title>By: Outcast Superstar</title>
		<link>http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/selfish-genes-and-overcoming-infidelity/#comment-148</link>
		<dc:creator>Outcast Superstar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2007 07:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am from the Don't Get Married Board and nor do I care to get in any lenghty debates but you asked on the Don't Get Married Board to post a comment so I will. I put other topics in the Public Section for all our visitors to read as well if you care to learn more about the view points of men.

I wrote a piece called Fuckers and Suckers and I will post it here for you.

After reading the nomarriage ebook, the author talks about two groups of men fuckers and suckers.

Keep in mind western women love excitement and hate boredom. When they are in their teens and early 20's they don't want stability that suckers have to offer because that is boring.

Keep in mind that women don't think for themselves but decisions on who they date or sleep with is usually made by the council not by the woman herself. This council is usually made up of her mother, sister, and friends etc. If dating a nice guy is not considered to be fun and popular by the "council" he is going to get snubbed.

There is another group of guys called fuckers. Women love to have sex with these guys during their prime years. Although they offer no stability to these women, however women will still sleep with them. The reason why women will is because they are unpredictable and therefore they are deemed as very exciting.

Once these women get to there late 20's - early 30's they will fraudently sell their looks to suckers who make a good income in order to get married. In other words they will put on a pony show for them until they get the ring. After a few years of marriage, these women are going to get bored and everything is the suckers fault. They will look for affairs and cash out on their suckers knowing that they will get the house, child support (if they have children), and alimony. All she has to do is file a false abuse charge (no proof necessary) to make all this happen. Even as a bonus, the sucker even gets to pay for her attorney fees.

Also, remember guys a women's fertility starts to decline at age 27 not in her 30's and 40's. If any of you want to start a family I highly recommend to make sure that the woman you are going to start a family with is no older than 25.

Despite their not being any legal justice in this country, Mother Nature has a justice of her own.

Those suckers who once ached for these women will lose interest in them once they get to be in their mid to late 20's. The last thing they are going to find attractive are used up women in their late 20's-30's. In fact these women must be avoided at all cost. They got a disease called baby rabies. They are going to do everything possible to get pregnant and trap you into a long term relationship where they can get provided for.

However, once those "suckers" get financially stable they will get to travel to foreign countries and enjoy beautiful women. Also, while in the United States, they will have developed fun hobbies to do when they are not working. In fact these "suckers" will not have to deal with the stress of fear of divorce, a nagging whore, false abuse and rape chargers, get to keep their sanity and money, won't have to worry about raising kid that aren't theirs etc.

However, the women who neglected the “suckers” in favor of the “fuckers” during their prime years are going to have to face justice. It's not legal justice but Mother Nature justice. Once they get to their late 20's for every year a man ages, they will be aging by two years. They will wrinkle and get ugly very fast. Investing thousands of dollars in makeup in order to form a bond with a “sucker” is not going to get the job done because they failed to form a bond with a "sucker" during their prime years. Their biological clocks will be ticking and they will get very desperate. They are going to want to be talking care off, like living off a “sucker” so they won't have to work. Disgusted by their behavior, the "suckers" will not want anything to do with them and will rebuke them. They are going to have to work long hours for the rest of their life because they could not find a "sucker" to take care of them. They will whine and complain that the "suckers" will not commit despite them snubbing them in favor of the "fuckers" during their prime years. They will rot all alone with no one to take care of them, many of them will not get to have children, and will be living very miserable lives until death all because they thought it was cute to let the "suckers" rot all alone while they go squander their prime years to the "fuckers" That my friends is what I call justice!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am from the Don&#8217;t Get Married Board and nor do I care to get in any lenghty debates but you asked on the Don&#8217;t Get Married Board to post a comment so I will. I put other topics in the Public Section for all our visitors to read as well if you care to learn more about the view points of men.</p>
<p>I wrote a piece called Fuckers and Suckers and I will post it here for you.</p>
<p>After reading the nomarriage ebook, the author talks about two groups of men fuckers and suckers.</p>
<p>Keep in mind western women love excitement and hate boredom. When they are in their teens and early 20&#8217;s they don&#8217;t want stability that suckers have to offer because that is boring.</p>
<p>Keep in mind that women don&#8217;t think for themselves but decisions on who they date or sleep with is usually made by the council not by the woman herself. This council is usually made up of her mother, sister, and friends etc. If dating a nice guy is not considered to be fun and popular by the &#8220;council&#8221; he is going to get snubbed.</p>
<p>There is another group of guys called fuckers. Women love to have sex with these guys during their prime years. Although they offer no stability to these women, however women will still sleep with them. The reason why women will is because they are unpredictable and therefore they are deemed as very exciting.</p>
<p>Once these women get to there late 20&#8217;s - early 30&#8217;s they will fraudently sell their looks to suckers who make a good income in order to get married. In other words they will put on a pony show for them until they get the ring. After a few years of marriage, these women are going to get bored and everything is the suckers fault. They will look for affairs and cash out on their suckers knowing that they will get the house, child support (if they have children), and alimony. All she has to do is file a false abuse charge (no proof necessary) to make all this happen. Even as a bonus, the sucker even gets to pay for her attorney fees.</p>
<p>Also, remember guys a women&#8217;s fertility starts to decline at age 27 not in her 30&#8217;s and 40&#8217;s. If any of you want to start a family I highly recommend to make sure that the woman you are going to start a family with is no older than 25.</p>
<p>Despite their not being any legal justice in this country, Mother Nature has a justice of her own.</p>
<p>Those suckers who once ached for these women will lose interest in them once they get to be in their mid to late 20&#8217;s. The last thing they are going to find attractive are used up women in their late 20&#8217;s-30&#8217;s. In fact these women must be avoided at all cost. They got a disease called baby rabies. They are going to do everything possible to get pregnant and trap you into a long term relationship where they can get provided for.</p>
<p>However, once those &#8220;suckers&#8221; get financially stable they will get to travel to foreign countries and enjoy beautiful women. Also, while in the United States, they will have developed fun hobbies to do when they are not working. In fact these &#8220;suckers&#8221; will not have to deal with the stress of fear of divorce, a nagging whore, false abuse and rape chargers, get to keep their sanity and money, won&#8217;t have to worry about raising kid that aren&#8217;t theirs etc.</p>
<p>However, the women who neglected the “suckers” in favor of the “fuckers” during their prime years are going to have to face justice. It&#8217;s not legal justice but Mother Nature justice. Once they get to their late 20&#8217;s for every year a man ages, they will be aging by two years. They will wrinkle and get ugly very fast. Investing thousands of dollars in makeup in order to form a bond with a “sucker” is not going to get the job done because they failed to form a bond with a &#8220;sucker&#8221; during their prime years. Their biological clocks will be ticking and they will get very desperate. They are going to want to be talking care off, like living off a “sucker” so they won&#8217;t have to work. Disgusted by their behavior, the &#8220;suckers&#8221; will not want anything to do with them and will rebuke them. They are going to have to work long hours for the rest of their life because they could not find a &#8220;sucker&#8221; to take care of them. They will whine and complain that the &#8220;suckers&#8221; will not commit despite them snubbing them in favor of the &#8220;fuckers&#8221; during their prime years. They will rot all alone with no one to take care of them, many of them will not get to have children, and will be living very miserable lives until death all because they thought it was cute to let the &#8220;suckers&#8221; rot all alone while they go squander their prime years to the &#8220;fuckers&#8221; That my friends is what I call justice!</p>
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