Comments on: Attaining The Elusive Threesome http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/attaining-the-elusive-threesome/ How to succeed with women, actually, for real...and for free. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 09:45:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: Cyduction http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/attaining-the-elusive-threesome/#comment-109 Cyduction Tue, 22 Jan 2008 02:10:29 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=52#comment-109 Playa, regarding: "I am trying really hard to get my girl to have a 3some with me and her friend." The 1st question you should be asking is why are you pressuring her to do this. To put your relationship with your girl in danger for this experience, there must be a reason other than unfullfilled fantasy. You should most likely ask yourself, "Is this a desire because I am feeling unfulfilled sexually in my current relationship, because I have always been secretly attracted (more attracted) to her friend and am looking for a way to get her into bed." or "Am I feeling inadequate sexually to her because she has more previous sexual experience than I do." or "The most sexually hot thing I can imagine is watching this woman I love/lust for/desire, touching another woman sexually, and letting me be involved in that experience." or any of the hundreds of permutations of that. Due to your statment of "I would not be able to just fuck my girl either because if that was the case then I wouldn’t even want to have the 3some." It sounds like what you are saying is you just want to get your dick into her friend. Also to state "I am worried that it will hurt our relationship though. I really wanna do this though. Would this hurt our relationship in the long run?" you already know the answer. If you feel you need to ask if it will hurt the relationship, then of course it will, you dont need outside validation to tell you that. Also you might want to think if it will cause problems between her and her friend. Will she start to resent that friend because you are pressuring her bring that friend to bed. If you are able to convince her somehow, and she fails to convince her friend to go along with it that will cause drama. If you are able to convince her somehow, and she does somehow convince her friend to go along with it, and later one or both of them are uncomfortable with the experience, that can cause MAJOR DRAMA! Also you may want to examine if you are using her/her friend/ both for your own gratification, regardless of either of their feelings on the matter. If this is something you MUST have, it will cause the least amount of problems (and the best chance of sucess) if you seduce the friend (make sure your girl is ok with this FIRST) and not have her have to do any of the work and not have to think too much about it. Playa, regarding: “I am trying really hard to get my girl to have a 3some with me and her friend.”
The 1st question you should be asking is why are you pressuring her to do this. To put your relationship with your girl in danger for this experience, there must be a reason other than unfullfilled fantasy. You should most likely ask yourself, “Is this a desire because I am feeling unfulfilled sexually in my current relationship, because I have always been secretly attracted (more attracted) to her friend and am looking for a way to get her into bed.” or “Am I feeling inadequate sexually to her because she has more previous sexual experience than I do.” or “The most sexually hot thing I can imagine is watching this woman I love/lust for/desire, touching another woman sexually, and letting me be involved in that experience.” or any of the hundreds of permutations of that.
Due to your statment of “I would not be able to just fuck my girl either because if that was the case then I wouldn’t even want to have the 3some.” It sounds like what you are saying is you just want to get your dick into her friend.
Also to state “I am worried that it will hurt our relationship though. I really wanna do this though. Would this hurt our relationship in the long run?” you already know the answer. If you feel you need to ask if it will hurt the relationship, then of course it will, you dont need outside validation to tell you that. Also you might want to think if it will cause problems between her and her friend. Will she start to resent that friend because you are pressuring her bring that friend to bed. If you are able to convince her somehow, and she fails to convince her friend to go along with it that will cause drama. If you are able to convince her somehow, and she does somehow convince her friend to go along with it, and later one or both of them are uncomfortable with the experience, that can cause MAJOR DRAMA! Also you may want to examine if you are using her/her friend/ both for your own gratification, regardless of either of their feelings on the matter.
If this is something you MUST have, it will cause the least amount of problems (and the best chance of sucess) if you seduce the friend (make sure your girl is ok with this FIRST) and not have her have to do any of the work and not have to think too much about it.

]]> By: thirtyplus http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/attaining-the-elusive-threesome/#comment-112 thirtyplus Sat, 29 Dec 2007 00:44:20 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=52#comment-112 You are trying to get a girl to allow her female friend into bed with you both? Highly unlikely.....most girls are not down sexually with their female friends. It could work, but only in the case in which either A) your girl has already fooled around with her female friend or B) she hasn't, but her female friend is strongly (sexually) attracted to her (and you). It has to balance out. If there's no pre-existing attraction to some degree between all three people, it won't work out. You are trying to get a girl to allow her female friend into bed with you both? Highly unlikely…..most girls are not down sexually with their female friends.

It could work, but only in the case in which either A) your girl has already fooled around with her female friend or B) she hasn’t, but her female friend is strongly (sexually) attracted to her (and you).

It has to balance out. If there’s no pre-existing attraction to some degree between all three people, it won’t work out.

]]> By: Playa http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/attaining-the-elusive-threesome/#comment-111 Playa Sat, 29 Dec 2007 00:01:08 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=52#comment-111 I am trying really hard to get my girl to have a 3some with me and her friend. I am worried that it will hurt our relationship though. I really wanna do this though. Would this hurt our relationship in the long run? I would not be able to just fuck my girl either because if that was the case then I wouldn't even want to have the 3some. I am trying really hard to get my girl to have a 3some with me and her friend. I am worried that it will hurt our relationship though. I really wanna do this though. Would this hurt our relationship in the long run? I would not be able to just fuck my girl either because if that was the case then I wouldn’t even want to have the 3some.

]]> By: ralph http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/attaining-the-elusive-threesome/#comment-113 ralph Mon, 26 Nov 2007 22:15:24 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=52#comment-113 me and my girlfrend are planing a 3some, but one basic ground rule is im not gonna have sex with the other girl, just fooling around. ill only fuck my girlfriend, and be turned on by the other girl pleasuring my girlfrend as i do! me and my girlfrend are planing a 3some, but one basic ground rule is im not gonna have sex with the other girl, just fooling around. ill only fuck my girlfriend, and be turned on by the other girl pleasuring my girlfrend as i do!

]]> By: max http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/attaining-the-elusive-threesome/#comment-110 max Sun, 05 Aug 2007 15:44:04 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=52#comment-110 hey, what about the scenario of a FB or FWB bringing in a friend? Its actually the same as 1+1+1 (party chicks) but already having established some sexual relationship to one of the girls. And much less drama then 2+1 Isn't that the "easiest" way, depending on the women of course hey,

what about the scenario of a FB or FWB bringing in a friend?

Its actually the same as 1+1+1 (party chicks) but already having established some sexual relationship to one of the girls.
And much less drama then 2+1

Isn’t that the “easiest” way, depending on the women of course

]]> By: me http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/attaining-the-elusive-threesome/#comment-108 me Sat, 30 Jun 2007 06:32:10 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=52#comment-108 ive been down both roads me and her and her ex , me, him and him they were both so very stimulating. as for during a relationship yep it would be bad. but if your single and out for fun and pleasure it's great. ive been down both roads me and her and her ex , me, him and him they were both so very stimulating. as for during a relationship yep it would be bad. but if your single and out for fun and pleasure it’s great.

]]> By: lifewords http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/attaining-the-elusive-threesome/#comment-107 lifewords Thu, 18 Jan 2007 17:13:19 +0000 http://realitymethod.com/?p=52#comment-107 Well written, and interesting to read the guy's point of view. Personally, the main reason I wouldn't be interested in a threesome involving another woman is that I have no sexual interest in women at all. A guy can pay attention to only one woman at a time adequately; so, the assumption is that the two women will also be interacting sexually. No thanks. I would be <b>very</b> interested in a threesome involving two entirely heterosexual men. I have enough orifices, plus hands and mouth, to take good care of both of them. Plus I'd love to have one of them just watching some of the time. Unfortunately, given my reality, it is a fantasy that is never destined to come true. Well written, and interesting to read the guy’s point of view. Personally, the main reason I wouldn’t be interested in a threesome involving another woman is that I have no sexual interest in women at all. A guy can pay attention to only one woman at a time adequately; so, the assumption is that the two women will also be interacting sexually. No thanks.

I would be very interested in a threesome involving two entirely heterosexual men. I have enough orifices, plus hands and mouth, to take good care of both of them. Plus I’d love to have one of them just watching some of the time. Unfortunately, given my reality, it is a fantasy that is never destined to come true.

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